Are you into a LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS? Many people belief that a long distance relationships are never going to work. Yes, nobody says that it’s going to be easy. “A Long Distance Relationships” may be tough but they have their own surprises too and success story if the couple is strong to go through
Many people belief that a long distance relationships are never going to work.
Yes, nobody says that it’s going to be easy.
“A Long Distance Relationships” may be tough but they have their own surprises too and success story if the couple is strong to go through it.
Learning from my past mistake, my new love is a long-distance relationship.
We met through online by chance. We, then continue chatting through Skype and Whatsapp for hours and days, trying to get to know each other better.
There are many scammers in the online but we are just very lucky, as we both have genuine intention of looking for friends and companion from the site
Our topics during our day to day communication covers from family, friends, career, hobby, interest, personality, likes, dislikes and our future plan in life.
What we wanted in life is the most important, as we agreed that we are looking for lasting happiness and financial freedom. We shared our life experiences and our expectations.
We then decided to be exclusive and also a partnership in business which he is into Social Media Network.
We not only having a long-distance relation but we are also from difference culture and religion. This doesn’t deter of our intention to be for long term and finally, be together.
We are lucky as our age gap is just by a year and we know what we needed and best for us.
Day after day, we realized that we had so many things in common in term of our personality, thinking and what we wanted in our life.
We both are explorer and loves travelling the world and had many experiences travelling and living abroad.
That makes us an open-minded person which makes our life more flexible and adaptable to change in which ever environment we are in.
Though we noticed that we do also have some disagreement on certain matters every now and then but we manage to overcome our differences by having deep communication, communicating our feelings and thoughts trying to solve all matters.
We move forward and don’t keep and hide any unsatisfactory feeling. Even it is hard but we try to solve it much we can.
Our dream is to work hard in our newly business venture to achieve a financial freedom and then to be together in the long term.
What I can say now is that we are working towards to achieve our GOALS as a good friend, couple, lover and also business partner in order to achieve our dream.
As we are new as a couple, we try to be professional when it comes to business, as we are also getting to know both our work ethics and working as a TEAM. We see it as an opportunity to expand our business.
Since my partner has experiences in the Social Media Network business, he leads, share and teaches me all regarding Social Media Marketing and Networks.
I am lucky to have him in my life and appreciate every moment of our life now.
His maturity, strong personality, understanding and kindness able to guide me to be a better person.
•Technology– Poor Internet connection can cause a lot of misunderstanding, miscommunication and disappointment due to delay, hang or stop which caused anger and frustration. We always need to be patient as it can happen anytime during communicating either by phone/laptop/desktop.
• Jelously– Uncontrolled jealousy can lead to a destructive combination of suspicion, possessiveness, insecurity, anger, and shame.
• Communicate regularly – Update your partner on your day to day life and it’s happening.
•Do things together– Share your daily things to do with your partner.
•Do similar things– Recommend any new things and common things during conversation. Share ideas!
•Share Special Moments – Share all special moments like birthday, family and closed friends events or happenings etc…
• Have a common GOAL together– Makes plan and direction towards achieving a mutual goal.
• Stay HONEST with each other– Talk about your feelings of fear, insecurity, jealousy, concerned etc… Be really open and honest with each other.
• Know Each Other’s Schedule– To know each other daily schedule and timing to connect is important. Both parties need to corporate on meeting the time.
• Stay Positives– To be constantly positive in life and keep the relationship alive.
• Video Call– To do a daily video call is an advantage.
• Avoid Dangerous Situation– Tell your partner beforehand if you are going to clubs with friends so to reassure him/her. Not to displease your partner by keeping a secret.
• Trust and Faith– You need to have 100% trust and faith on each other.
• Deal with Fights Effectively– Apart from texting, calling is needed to clear the air. As there is always an issue when we misunderstood the text messages. Do not prolong any fights.
• Live Your Own Life– Able to maintain hobbies , friends and family outside of a relationship.
• Having an END PLAN– Long distance should be temporary. You and partner need to be on the same page on the END PLAN together.
Essentially, being in long-distance creates issues and challenges that you might not face in a “normal” relationship, but if you can handle them, I think it can expedite emotional growth.
So, often, being in a long-distance can create a feeling of security, because it’s clear that you’re both all in. This only happens when you communicate regularly with your partner.
Also being in an Long Distance relationships requires a lot of sacrifice of time and must take a lot of efforts. It takes two to tango.
You have to stick it out for love, even when it’s at the hardest .
Honestly, after having swiped myself into this Long Distance Relationship, I’m finding it sort of refreshing to have to work hard for something, and someone, I care about and going to have future together. Its all worth the time spending to search for this new era love.
HAVE A LOVELY DAY!
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